Life Makeover

In part two of this article, we continue with the question most adults ask and it’s “Why Am I Unhappy”? Well, I’ve compiled 5 more reasons which I’m going to cover in the last of this 2 part article series. 

Remember Nicole? Nicole is sad and unhappy with the life she’s living. Below you’ll discover the remaining 5 reasons why poor Nicole is so unhappy. You may see glimpses of yourself and how you’ve been absolutely successful in making your life suck!

Reason #6: Not Being Focused

In today’s super-hyped, noisy world, there are so many things clamoring for our attention. Lack of focus causes you to become confused. I like to refer to it as B.S.O. (bright shiny object) syndrome. This is because a confused mind always say no! And when you are confused, you lack focus which may contribute to your unhappiness.

Reason #7: Taking Things Personally

Nicole takes everything personally. This is a major cause of her unhappiness. Everyone’s problems become her problems. She feels that when someone has a problem, that it’s her problem, and as you guessed it, the unhappiness train speeds on to SadTown. 

Reason #8: Not Seeing The World As It Is

Our friend Nicole sees the world as an unfriendly place. She doesn’t realize that she really sees the world as SHE is, and not as the world REALLY is. It’s all a matter of perspective. If she could just shift her perspective, she would see that if she changes the way she looks at the world, the world she looks at changes.

Reason #9: Depending On Others For Your Happiness

Most women, not all, tend to look to others to supply their dose of happiness. They look to family, friends, boyfriends, husbands, children and other people to make them happy. While it’s nice to have the love and support of people who contribute to your happiness, you have to ultimately be responsible for your own happiness. Start imagining your possibilities and look within to make yourself happy.

Reason #10: Being a Conformist

Earl Nightingale, who is considered the founder of the personal growth industry stated that the problem with most people today is – they conform. They want to be like everybody else. He says we don’t think for ourselves. And Nicole fits this mold. She tries not to rock the boat.  She wants to be like everyone else. No wonder she is unhappy. Everyone is unique and it’s when we try to hide the very traits that make us unique we become unhappy. 

So there you have it – the last 5 reasons that can cause you unhappiness. Perhaps you saw a piece of yourself in Nicole. When you take life so seriously, it can make you miserable. By embracing one of the natural laws of the universe – the law of polarity, which states that everything has an opposite action, all that you need to do is reverse the last five reasons and start creating the life you deserve.

If you happen to find yourself stuck in life and want to stop asking the asking yourself, ‘why am I unhappy’, I invite you to download my Totally FREE Get Your Life Unstuck Training program. Visit www.LifeUnstuck.com

 Most of us at some point in our adult lives may ask ourselves this question – “Why Am I Unhappy”?  Well, I’ve compiled 5 reasons which I’m going to cover that may contribute to your unhappiness.  In this 2 part article series, I want to introduce you to Nicole.  Nicole is sad and unhappy with the life she’s living.  You’ll discover the first 5 of 10 reasons why poor Nicole is so unhappy. You may even see glimpses of yourself and how you’ve been absolutely successful in making your life suck!

If you watch children at play, whether indoors or on the playground, you’ll notice the majority of children are happy.  Of course, there will always be events in kids’ lives that may cause unhappiness, but this is usually a happy time for most children.  

So what happens to us as we leave the teenage years behind and enter adulthood?  We start conforming to adulthood and gradually abandon our dreams and settle for a life of mediocrity.  We tell ourselves we’re being responsible adults and resign ourselves to things that don’t make our heart sing.  Underneath it all, that nagging question “Why Am I Unhappy” raises its ugly head over and over again. 

Reason #1: Unrealistic Expectations

Nicole expects perfection both in people and in the things she does.  This quest for perfectionism causes her undue stress.  When things fail to go the way she expects them to, her expectations are dashed and unhappiness sets in – once again.

Reason #2: Settling for a Life of Mediocrity

Nicole is in good company with several other people in this regard.  Because of past frustrations and failures, she wrongly believes her future is set in stone, based on her personal history.  To avoid further disappointment, she’s resigned herself to living a life of quiet desperation.

Reason #3: Letting Others Control Your Emotions

This one hits home for many people.  They let others control their emotions.  For example, Nicole works as a salesperson in a department store.  When people treat her rudely, she allows their opinion of her to define herself.  She get upsets and then becomes annoyed with herself for giving strangers control over her emotions. This continues the cycle of unhappiness.

Reason #4: Not Taking 100% Personal Responsibility

A surefire recipe for unhappiness is not taking 100% responsibility for everything that happens to you.  This is a bitter pill to swallow because so many people would just love to have someone else to blame.  A scapegoat.  This way, the pressure is off them and they don’t need to look at the real reason for their unhappiness – themselves.

Reason #5: Not Imagining Your Possibilities

I like to think that imagination is an adult tragedy.  As we cross the bridge from childhood to adulthood, we seem to lose our imagination.  Recapturing your imagination, remembering the lost dreams you had and pursuing them will stop you from asking yourself the question “Why Am I Unhappy”.  Anything that you want to be, do or have is within you.  You just have to have to courage to play big.

So there you have it – the first 5 reasons that can cause you to be unhappy.  Perhaps you saw a piece of yourself in Nicole.  When you take life so seriously, it can make you miserable.  By embracing one of the natural laws of the universe – the law of polarity, which states that everything has an opposite action, all that you need to do is reverse the first five reasons and start creating the life you deserve.

If you happen to find yourself stuck in life and want to stop asking the asking yourself, ‘why am I unhappy’, I invite you to download my Totally FREE Get Your Life Unstuck Training program. Visit www.LifeUnstuck.com